Tuesday, 21 July 2015

Hold Your Inner Strength High

How difficult is it to follow your instincts?

Inner strength is nothing but a reflection of your single mindedness, determination and firmness. If you want something, you want it irrespective of the challenges lying ahead or hurdles pulling you back. Folks with low will power quit the opportunities in the wake of getting simpler ones ahead. Alternately, folks equipped with higher determination try out each and every opportunity that comes their way and are eager to confront more in future holding similar or tough situations.

Are you willing to explore the sky diving experience but the fear in you is restricting your wish to bloom?

Close your eyes, take a deep breath and speak up ‘Yes I will do’! Develop the confidence in you up to an extent that fear does not get a scope to flourish in you. Inner strength and fear cannot exist under one roof. One has to die to let other blossom. Now you decide which one do you wish to stick with?

Getting to do what you what is not a herculean task. If you contain passion for a particular thing, go for it without worrying about the aftermath consequences. You want to be a musician but the parental pressure of becoming a doctor is hard to ignore. What can be the best possible solution to this situation? There are only two possible outcomes.

Ø  Either go by your parents, taking into consideration the society and its norms and say yes for pursuing Doctory.
Ø  Or stick to your vigorous inner strength of becoming a musician and be oblivious to external factors.

Consider both the conditions and analyse your long-term contentment level when you choose to go with either of them.

Sunday, 1 February 2015

World's Too Large To Please!

Loosen Up!
Act Freaky!
Live Your Way!

Coz world is too large to please and your life is too short to even try!

You must have come across an array of strange people who do not run on the same line of thoughts as you do and therefore, can never be pleased by your charming gestures. Is it worth trying to please them over and over again?

For instance, you like a pair of dress but your friend reprimands it. What are you going to do? Not buy it just because your lovable friend did not like it? What if you buy as per your friend's choice and your husband rebukes it? Hahaha! confused? Well, it is quite dangerous to accept everyone's concern, go as per their choices, pleasing a set of people and still be miserable for another set.

Do you know the best way to escape this situation? Just act your way!

Let me state a small experience that happened with me some time back. I am a kinda person who loves to talk, blabber around and speak non stop. Thats the way i am. Post marriage demands me to be a sophisticated, soft-spoken and worldly-wise girl. Ideally, that how every girl should behave post marriage. My hard efforts in changing myself reached a success after quite a few months. Finally, the day came when i converted myself into a punctilious, well-bred lady from a jabbering girl. And hey, to my chagrin, i was again disfavoured. 'Why have i become so grooved? Cant i lead a normal life without getting on the nerves of others?' 

Those who are reading this piece of material, i have a question to put across you. Am i wrong if i want to lead a life on my own? Am i wrong if i like to be same forever the way i am? Am i wrong if i am bubbly and jolly by heart? Seeking for your answers.